Does your child resist haircuts at the barber? They might not like the vestibular input of sitting on a chair that gets propelled upwards, feeling the apron around their neck, or the auditory stimulation of surrounding conversations and the buzz of razors. Many parents avoid these haircuts for as long as possible.
What can you do to help your child get used to the sensation of getting their hair cut? Our occupational therapists and moms at Fun and Function have put together some tips for you to try.
1. Plan Ahead
If you know your child is sensitive and you have not yet taken them to the barber, let them watch someone else get their haircut a few times before going themselves. Best to show them at a time of day that is not so busy. In addition, read a social story about the experience or watch a video of someone they know at the barber shop.
2. Special Treatment
You can ask the barber to come early or stay late the first few times to ease your child into the experience to reduce the noise and visual overwhelm. There are also salons that specialize in children and have seats shaped like cars, playrooms and other amenities. Maybe your child can sit on your lap and forgo the apron. Alternatively, you can ask the barber to come to your house and give your child a haircut in the backyard.
3. Address The Sensory Issues
The feel of the razor might be startling for your child. Introduce them to how the vibration might feel with a toy that vibrates, like Tickles the Turtle. Let them explore how it feels on less sensitive parts of their body, such as the back, and then transition to arms, legs and head (with their permission). Do this for short periods of time and build up from there. Let your child see and explore the barber’s tools before they are used– including the big fluffy brush used to wipe away the stray hairs.
On the day of the planned trip to the barber, make sure your child is well rested and has all their sensory supports in place. A chewy might help relieve anxiety. A lap pad can calm. Have a favorite snack on hand or try sipping on ice water.
Don’t make a fuss if your child doesn’t let the barber get near them the first time or if it takes more than one session to get one haircut done. Sometimes just sitting in the chair will be a victory to celebrate.
Check out our calming toys and tools to reduce anxiety.
Want to know more about these, or other, sensory strategies? Send us a message at customercare@funandfunction.com or leave us a comment!
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